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Onboarding buddy responsibilities

Define an onboarding buddy’s role, choose an available colleague and plan useful check-ins. Give both people clear responsibilities and a way to ask for help.

Elizabeth de BruijnWritten byElizabeth de Bruijn
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Key takeaways

  • Choose a colleague with organisational knowledge and time to provide the promised support.
  • Separate everyday buddy help from manager decisions and specialist instruction.
  • Introduce the pair before arrival and agree how they can contact each other.
  • Finish check-ins with an owner and follow-up date for unanswered practical questions.

An onboarding buddy is a colleague who helps a new employee find people, understand everyday ways of working and ask questions during their first weeks. Give the buddy a clear brief and time to do the work.

Plan the relationship before the employee arrives. Choose a colleague, agree responsibilities and make time for conversations before and after arrival.

Sophie de Vries and Amara Okafor talking over coffee at an office table.
Sophie de VriesAn informal conversation over coffee.

What does an onboarding buddy do?

The buddy helps the employee navigate the organisation: where information lives, which colleague knows an answer and how the team works together. That includes practical questions that might otherwise interrupt a first meeting or remain unanswered.

Drawing on remote-onboarding research at Microsoft, Microsoft Research describes a buddy as someone who helps a new hire find resources and connect with colleagues. It distinguishes that support from a technical mentor’s specialist help.[1]

  1. 01

    Practical guidance

    Explain how to find shared information, contacts and everyday team routines. Show the employee where to go when a question needs a specialist.

  2. 02

    Introductions

    Connect the new employee with colleagues and explain what each person does. Help them build a working network beyond the names on an organisation chart.

  3. 03

    Regular conversations

    Make time to ask how the start is going. Listen for information the employee cannot find and help them agree a next step.

Choose a buddy with time, knowledge and interest

Start with availability. Ask the prospective buddy and their manager whether they can make time for introductions and recurring conversations. A knowledgeable colleague with no space in their calendar cannot provide the support you have promised.

Choose someone who understands the organisation and wants to help. They should be approachable and comfortable finding the right owner when they do not know an answer. Consider interests and ways of working that could make the first conversation easier.

Choose a colleague who is not the new employee’s direct supervisor. Keep that distinction clear in the brief: the manager owns expectations and work decisions, while the buddy helps the person navigate the workplace.

Buddy responsibilities before the first day

Amara Okafor showing Sophie de Vries an office space.
Sophie de VriesLooking around the workplace together.

Introduce the buddy by name and explain what they can help with. Give both people a way to contact each other. Ask the buddy to share the practical information the employee needs to arrive or join the first call.

The buddy can explain where the team works, how to find colleagues and what to expect from introductions. A virtual tour may help a remote employee put names and places into context. Coordinate it with the wider preboarding plan.

Keep equipment and account questions with their responsible teams. The buddy can point the employee to an owner and check that someone will reply. They should not be left to resolve preparation work they cannot control.

Buddy responsibilities during the first weeks

Make introductions, explain everyday routines and give the employee a place to ask follow-up questions. Invite them to an informal coffee or lunch if that fits the team. Agree how and when they can contact the buddy between meetings.

Sophie de Vries asking a question while Amara Okafor listens at a meeting table.
Sophie de VriesMaking time for a question.

When the employee is learning a task, the buddy can share what they know and explain where to find further help. Give role-specific learning to the person who can provide the right instruction. Keep the manager involved when a question concerns expectations or priorities.

Use check-ins to close practical gaps. If someone still cannot find the right information, agree whom to ask and when to follow up. That is a more useful record than marking the meeting complete while leaving the question unanswered.

Buddy brief template: agree the scope and contacts

Copy and adapt this brief with the manager and buddy before introducing the pair. Share the agreed contacts with the new employee. Keep confidential concerns in the appropriate private channel.

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    People and first introduction

    New employee: [name]. Buddy: [name]. Manager: [name]. First introduction: [date, time and location or link].

  2. 02

    Support and contacts

    Everyday questions: [buddy and channel]. Role-specific instruction: [specialist]. Work priorities and decisions: [manager]. Confidential concerns: [approved contact].

  3. 03

    Availability and follow-up

    Agreed contact times: [times]. Contact channel: [channel]. Next conversation: [date]. Outstanding practical question: [question]. Action owner and follow-up date: [name and date].

Plan check-ins that lead to an answer

Schedule the first introduction, then agree a contact pattern the two people can keep. Review it as the employee’s questions change.

Sophie de Vries writing in a notebook at an office table.
Sophie de VriesWriting down a follow-up action.

Start with a question about the employee’s experience. What information have they struggled to find? Whom do they still need to meet? Which team routine needs another explanation? Give them time to raise their own questions.

Finish with an agreed action where needed. Record the owner and follow-up date in your team’s plan. Keep sensitive concerns out of a shared tracker and help the employee find the appropriate confidential contact.

Example: find the person who owns a specialist answer

In a fictional fintech infrastructure company, a new Support colleague asks the buddy which product explanation they should use. The buddy helps locate the current approved material and introduces its owner if an explanation is missing.

If the question requires a product or customer decision, the buddy connects the colleague with the responsible specialist or manager. They do not approve an answer simply because they are the buddy. The fintech infrastructure page explains the broader onboarding and learning context.

Prepare the first buddy conversation

Choose an available colleague, complete the brief with their manager and book the first introduction. Give the employee the buddy’s name and a clear description of the support they can expect.

Use our preboarding tips for contact before arrival and the employee onboarding checklist template for the wider plan.

Sources

  1. Rodeghero, P., Zimmermann, T., Houck, B., Ford, D., & Jaffe, S. (2021). Advice for remote onboarding of new hires. Microsoft Research. https://www.microsoft.com/en-us/research/articles/advice-for-remote-onboarding-of-new-hires/

Where CapoFine fits

Keep the plan moving in Onboard

Onboard coordinates tasks, meetings, company learning, goals and reminders from preboarding through day 90. HR can see progress while managers, buddies and internal teams own their assigned activities.

Frequently asked questions

Questions people ask about this topic.

What is an onboarding buddy?

An onboarding buddy is a colleague who helps a new employee find information, meet people and understand everyday ways of working during the first weeks.

Who should be an onboarding buddy?

Choose an approachable colleague with time, organisational knowledge and an interest in helping. Choose someone other than the employee’s direct supervisor.

What does a buddy do before the first day?

Introduce themselves, explain how to get in touch, share practical arrival information and help the employee understand the team and workplace.

How often should a buddy check in?

Agree regular conversations that fit both people’s availability. Review the frequency as the new employee’s questions and support needs change.

Is a buddy the same as a technical mentor?

A buddy helps with the organisation and everyday connections. A technical mentor provides specialist help with the work. Microsoft Research distinguishes these roles in its remote-onboarding guidance.[1]